177: Colour and Style Q&A: How to find a balance between boring and overwhelming when considering contrast in texture and stylistic elements? How to style a 68 year old woman without dressing too young? How to stay fashionable when half of the current fashions don’t suit my shape?

Could you share about finding a balance between boring and overwhelming when considering contrast in texture and stylistic elements? How does that relate to and reflect my physical attributes?
I’m nearly 69 years old and I don’t want to dress too young, however, I don’t want to feel like a frumpy old woman – help please!
How to stay fashionable when half of the current fashions don’t suit my shape particularly when I like the look of them.